Why Do Women Cheat?
Listed
below are the most common findings about cheating
wives.
- Women cheat for the same reason that men
cheat. It is simply because they are in love
with two people. They can't control these
feelings, love is just a natural occurring
emotion.
- Being in a loveless marriage.
- The fantasy has fizzled. A corollary to
fizzling passion occurs when the romance fades
and she realizes her man is not the
fantasy man she fell in love with. Instead, he’s
a mass of irksome habits that are starting to
get under their skin.
- Their interests with their spouses have
diverged. He wants to shoot pool with his
buddies or watch football during his free time;
you’d rather go shopping or watch Soap Operas.
- When a
woman feels like little more than a household
drudge, attention from someone else becomes
extremely seductive.
- Familiarity has bred indifference. The most
common justification for infidelity heard from
women is that they feel taken for granted.
- Women are less likely to cheat than men.
While estimates of infidelity are difficult to
establish, surveys consistently reveal that
wives tend to be more faithful than husbands.
- When a wife does cheat on her husband, she
is more likely to have an emotional affair.
Women are less likely than men to have a one
night stand.
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Because
women are more likely to have an emotional
affair, cheating wives tend to cheat with
someone who is part of their social group – a
friend, a co-worker, someone from school,
church, etc.
- A cheating wife is also more likely to swap
up when she cheats. Cheating wives tend to have
affairs with men who have more status and
resources than their husbands. Or women cheat
with men who are better relational partners –
someone who is more attentive, appreciative and
understanding.
- A cheating wife is also more likely to
consider leaving her husband when she is having
an affair. Because female infidelity tends to be
based on emotional intimacy, women often attach
more significance to an affair.
- When women cheat, they are also more likely
to view their infidelity as a symptom of the
problems in their relationship. By comparison,
men have an easier time separating infidelity
from the problems they face at home.
- Women are also more likely to draw positive
inferences about their physical appearance when
they are cheating (e.g., I'm still attractive,
I'm still desirable, etc.).
- Her Lover Gave Her The Attention She
Believed She Needed
- She longs for affection, but with none
coming from her husband, she gets it from a
lover. The false belief that women are less
sexual than men, is just that, FALSE! Women
crave sex just as much as men do, if not more.
When she is not getting it at home, the cheating
wife often times seeks sexual satisfaction
outside the home.
- When a husband doesn’t ignite her passions
by being affectionate and romantic, a woman can
quickly spiral into the “I don’t feel loved
anymore,” doldrums. When she gets to that stage,
she is a prime candidate for an affair. When the
right man starts paying attention to her by
complimenting her and making her feel beautiful,
watch out; she’s subject to become a cheating
wife!
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She Married For All The Wrong Reasons.
- She Switched Teams. It should go without
saying that there are more and more women
engaging in lesbianism.
- When a woman does have a one night stand, it
tends to be with someone who is more attractive
and physically fit than her husband.
- She Wants To Get Revenge.
"Hell hath no fury like a
woman scorned"
- Women are also more likely than men to use
cheating as a means of getting revenge. While
using infidelity to "get even" is rare, "revenge
cheating" is more common among women.
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