Why Do Men Cheat?
First of all, men don't always cheat, but when they do, here are some possible reasons:
- They are not
ready to have
commitments.
- They no
longer feel
satisfied/stimulated
in their current
relationship and
are too cowardly
to end the
relationship.
- They are
concerned about
their
financial/living
situation if
they end the
relationship,
but do not feel
fulfilled in it.
- They like
various sex
partners.
- They crave
the initial
excitement and
illicitness of a
"secret" affair.
- She isn't
what she used to
be. If she got
lazy physically
or gained weight
or just doesn’t
take care of
herself, a guy
will start
looking at other
women.
- They need to
feel desired and
their partner
does not fulfill
that need.
- Men are
single-minded
and don't think
about the
consequences of
their actions.
-
Some men
cheat because
they think they
can get by with
it.
- Some cheat
because they
don't take their
relationships
seriously.
- No one loves
a ball buster.
The spouse is a
controlling
bitch of a wife.
Perhaps nothing
will drive a
married man into
the arms of
another woman
faster than a
nagging wife.
She’s like a
mosquito he
doesn’t want to
have sex with
her; he wants to
[swat her away].
- Guys cheat
because many of
them
increasingly
feel powerless
in a society
that is giving
women more
rights & powers
in the domestic
& public
spheres.
- Men stray
outside of
long-term
relationships to
remember what it
was like to be
desirable and
free.
"Schedules" and
routine destroy
self image.
- The woman's
sex drive isn't
what it was when
you first got
married.
- Having sex
with more than
one woman is an
ego boost for
those with low
self-esteem.
- Men cheat
because they are
bored in their
current
relationships
- The thrill
of it all. Most
guys who have
affairs are
getting in touch
with their inner
caveman: They
like to play
with fire.
- The man
perceives that
the partner is
bored with or no
longer
interested in
sex.
- Lack of or
poor
communication
with the
spouse/girlfriend
can lead a man
to cheat.
- Their
spouses might
not be
interested in
doing the sexual
things the men
want to try out
(e.g. oral,
anal, 3-ways,
etc.) or even
afraid or
morally against
such kinks.
- Even if the
couple has an
active sex life,
one partner may
not feel
satisfied.
- They love
their spouse,
and the spouse
is not
interested in
sex, so instead
of forcing their
spouse they
cheat.
- Their spouse
may have stopped
taking care of
her physical
appearance.
- It’s
just sex. For
most guys, sex
and love are two
entirely
different
things.
- Some people are just going to cheat no matter what you do. It’s their biological nature to be with as many females as possible.
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