Love Needs Work

Love takes work. It needs constant attention. Both of you need to be reassured, made to feel confident in the partnership. Don’t let monotony and routine take command of the romantic life. Here are a few things you can do to keep your relationship strong.

1. Make time for each other: Go out on dates. Schedule one evening out per week, just the two of you. This is what couples do. It will be time well spent.

2. Take care of yourself: Exercise, eat right and look sexy for your partner. Paying attention to your appearance shows you care. You also need to stay healthy and get regular check-ups. Physical ailments can lead to emotional problems, which affect the relationship.

3. Be respectful: Be considerate of one another. Don’t take the other person for granted. Help each other out around the house. Listen when your partner is feeling tense and stressful. Make an effort to understand your partner’s point of view and appreciate your partner’s opinions. Warning: This only works if both of you do it.

4. Compliments go a long way: Just because you’ve told them before doesn’t mean they don’t want to hear it again. Show them a little love by telling them how amazing they are to you. “You look beautiful.” “Hey, stud.”

5. Sexy surprise: Be spontaneous. Try something new. Leave your significant other little notes: Tell them you can’t wait to see them later that NIGHT. Get them gifts. Keep them on their toes.    

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