Why is
love so hard?
Validate your mate.
We have to learn to
notice and openly express thanks for the
beautiful things our mates do for us. (And
if you can't find anything to thank him or
her for, then why are you there?) It makes
our mates feel so good when we let them know
the things we appreciate about them. And it
encourages them to continue doing beautiful
things. Remember that every relationship has
its good and every relationship has its bad.
By focusing on the bad, we starve. By
focusing on the good, we thrive. So don't
let another day pass before you say, "Thank
you. I love you." Say it today . . . and say
it often.
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