QUEER GALS FOR STRAIGHT GUYS
Lesbian Tips on Making Love With a Woman

Here are some of the succulent tips and wise suggestions shared by a lesbian couple as to how to truly sexually appease a woman.
 

Don't Be Confined or Limited by Sight Men tend to get stuck in the visuals and only see tits and ass. Women tend to be more process-oriented and welcome a man who sees more in them than a place to park their penises.	Don't Focus on "Getting Off" The illusion that it's hard for a woman to climax is bogus. She can come by herself anytime she chooses. When you're together, enjoy being together. Lovemaking is an exchange, not a pursuit.
Stop Treating Women's Nipples Like a Target They aren't tuning knobs or push-buttons. They're one small part of the breast. Enjoy the hole thing. Take it all in.	Put the Stopwatch Away Enjoy the hedonistic experience of sex. Luxuriate in moment-to-moment pleasure. Take time to love every inch of your partner. Let the tension build up, then linger. Use all of your senses (these would include touch, smell, sight, sound and taste). Make it tasty, make it fun.

Toy Around Take her to a sex shop. Get some toys, books, lingerie, videos, oils and/or vibrators. Vibrators aren't for women, by the way; men can receive just as much pleasure from a vibrator as a woman can.

Observe the Golden Rule Be willing to have anything you do to her done to you. That's right, anything. If you want to have her go down on you, then go down on her. If you want to have anal sex, be willing to be penetrated. Be willing to take what you dish out.

Listen Up Listening to your partner when she speaks and giving her attention is love. Eye contact and the courage to honestly reveal yourself emotionally and physically is love. Sex is not just jumping into bed and muff-diving; it's sharing your feelings, thoughts, desires, fears, hopes and dreams. It's being open to change and transformation. Communicate. The best lovers are those who talk about sex, feelings, thoughts, experiences and desires.

Take it as it Comes Women are physically and emotionally in flux. Instead of complaining about changes, celebrate the ups and downs, the curve balls and the unexpected. It makes life more adventurous and unpredictable.  Every day is a new day, and every time you we make love is different. It's a wonderful gift to be sexually reborn and able to see each other as if for the first time whenever you're intimate.

Before these, I saw myself enlightened and understanding man who loved and respected my partner, and enjoyed our sexual differences and similarities. After absorbing these ideas and suggestions, I realized how wrong I was - or at least how far I had to go. I've learned to slow down and enjoy what's in front of me; I had no idea there were so many beautiful sensations of sight, sound, smell and taste that I had been passing by on my way to the "promised land."