Why is
love so hard?
Become the mate you want your mate to be.
First make a list
of all the characteristics you want your
mate to have. It could look like this:
loving, thoughtful, warm, considerate,
caring, appreciative, romantic, generous.
Now for the big challenge... pick up the
mirror and begin developing these qualities
in yourself. You may be someone who resists
this challenge. But how can we ask our mates
to be something we have been unwilling to be
ourselves? Trust me when I tell you that
incorporating all these loving qualities
within our own beings can dramatically alter
the thoughts and actions of our mates.
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